Replace the boolean-flag-based async join system with a clean state machine
(eJoinState enum) and move connection progress handling from UIScene_JoinMenu
into UIScene_ConnectingProgress as a dedicated UI class.
Combines the best of two approaches: non-blocking sockets with select()
timeout and SO_RCVTIMEO clearing (prevents random disconnects) with the
upstream's state enum, FinalizeJoin separation, and ConnectingProgress UI.
JoinGame() now returns JOINGAME_PENDING on Win64, and
PlatformNetworkManagerStub::DoWork() polls the join state to finalize
the connection when the background thread succeeds.
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